Not Quite a Medivac, but Close Enough.
So I thought I'd do an update, mainly because it's easier than answering all the emails entitled "The Bohemian" inquiring as to her constitution. And I'm lazy. Sorry I haven't really been out and about in the blogosphere, but hey, the world didn't end. I probably should make that break more often before I end up at Blogger's anonymous.
She's not doing so hot. Every time I talk to her I keep hoping to hear she's feeling better, but it's looking to be a slow recovery. Expected with mono, but still. Today was some good news, as she says the swelling in her throat has begun to go down, but it's nowhere close to normal. She did manage to actually eat some oatmeal today -- mixed down to a sort of oatmeal soup, but still, it's food.
Anyway, we're bringing her home tomorrow morning. There is just no way she could attend class next week, and I don't want her stuck there by herself over the holiday especially, when I'm sure even Miss Willis will have cleared out for the holiday. I couldn't imagine her this sick and alone there over holiday. Neither the doctor nor I thought she'd be able to handle the normal flight, though -- direct flights are always about $800 or more, so she always goes with the Commoner's Flight, an all day ordeal involving a layover of at least a couple of hours. Normally no problem - the child made her first international flight at 5 weeks old and is an old hand at traveling, but now? No way.
Anyway, she found a direct flight for only $400-something. We got lucky. So all she has to do is get on the flight and collapse, and it will take her straight to Seattle. I pick her up tomorrow morning.
She really hasn't eaten much since last Monday but a bit of soup, and that liquid oatmeal today. Other than that, it's been Gatorade and Ensure and herbal teas. She's very slender to begin with (amazing, given the fact that she often packs away more than her athlete-growing-spurt-brother) so I'm worried about her losing weight. I'm glad she's coming home.
She's worried she won't be able to eat Thanksgiving dinner. That's a good sign. Seriously, she may be a little slip of a thing, but the girl can EAT. Normally, anyway. I'm going to make my homemade potato soup for her tomorrow - it's one of her favorite things in the world, and if I mash most of the potatoes up real good and use more milk, she should be able to eat it.
Thanks to all of you who sent good thoughts and support and even medical knowledge over the cyberwaves to the Bohemian and her mom -- it is much appreciated. I must throw a shout out to my Boston and DC boyz in particular. I received offers to actually rush to her rescue, which was very much appreciated. I know it might seem seem strange to those who don't "do" this blogging thing, that I'd find some measure of comfort in knowing there were a bunch of men across the country whom I've never met, who were willing to rush over to my daughter's dorm room and tend to her every need. Come to think of it, that actually sounds just batshit crazy. But I knew they would, and in a totally good way, too.
To quote one RG, of Boston fame:
... one word to The Boyz in the DC area via the blog-o-sphere, and she'll be more looked after than a sequined dress on Halloween in the Castro. We got your back girl.
That pretty much says it all. I've got a couple of non-cyber friends out that direction as well, which has always lent a bit of "just in case" security to the Bohemian being on the opposite coast. That security is feeling even stronger now. Knowing that people care and would be there if we really need it ... well, it makes things a little bit easier. Thanks boyz.
20 comments:
thanks for keep us up to date. I know seeing mama will make it much better.
Thank you for the update, and I am glad she is on her way back to the nest. Nothing is more miserable than being sick and alone during a holiday. Yes, people who don't blog, think that we are a little nuts. I was given the "are you crazy" look when I informed Jim I was flying to the the east coast to meet up with (in his words) "complete strangers". This community is not so different than 'real life', with one exception. You spend hours reading other people's opinions, politics, world view, concerns, cares, etc., and aren't conned or put off by the outward packaging. In a way, it is a much more reliable way to measure someone, than encountering them in everyday life. I felt immediately at home when I met other bloggers in person. I believe all the east coast boys would of had your girl's back in an instant.
I'm glad to hear that the Bohemian is going home. Never had Mono, don't want it, but I'm glad to hear that there is a good virtual support system out there.
I know that RG would have dragged my ass down to DC with him if that was what had to be done.
I also know what you mean about slender girls that eat like longshoremen. The Ganomette weighed all of 90 pounds when she was in high school and ate me out of house and home. Amazing ain't it?
Just keep forcing the food down her and be prepared for a bit of a long haul. Mono takes a long time to recover from.
Glad she's coming home! She needs her Mamma for a while. I pray for a swift flight and nary a delay so the poor child can get home to her own bed and your potato soup.
I'm glad she will be back home soon, for her sake and for yours.
Thanks for the update. I'm glad for both of you that she'll be home soon.
I've been keeping her in my prayers. I'm really glad you're bringing her home. She needs her mama. And, I think, mama needs her, too.
The soup sounds like just the ticket!
She's back she's back! YAAAAAY!
Such a good mom. Have I mentioned that yet?
I am so glad our (and she is ours in a certain way - that blog thing I guess) Bohemian will be back home for the holiday - nothing worse than being sick and alone with your family at the other side of the country at holiday time. And I'm glad for you as it will take a load of worry from you.
Its a struggle with mono - had it back sometime in the last century when I was 19 or 20. Just feed her up and let her get plenty of that much needed family care and love.
Prayers and thoughts are still hers and yours.
So glad she was able to get a direct flight! I hope the trip doesn't wear her out too much more than she already is. Her own bed, mama's potato soup- sounds like just what she needs. You, too!
Keep us posted. You know we all care.
I'm glad she is well enough to come home and get a little TLC from her mom.
This is the same Stoic Bohemian that stood,toe-to-toe,against the opposition in D.C. some few weeks back?..
She'll kick mono's ass!
Mom's homemade potato soup figuring largely in the equation.
I hope she is able to eat Thanksgiving dinner. Thanks for the update, I hope she feels better soon.
A bit late to the homecoming party (is she home yet? I assume so), and other than echoing everything said above, I can only add:
Mmmmmm. Potato Soup.
She needs her mom...that will make her feel better and comforted more than gruel.....have a wonderfilled holiday...love, rosemary
I'm glad the Bohemian is home. You know we worry. :)
Sounds like 'thanksgiving' in its truest sense is in store for you... enjoy having your bohemian baby in your arms....
Continued well-wishes go out to the kid.
Happy mending!Good to hear the news...another positive thing about blog!
Hey all - sorry I've been such a slackass non-responder. I haven't been around much in cyberspace, which has actually been kind of a nice break. Thank you so much for your continued well-wishes, comments, emails, and obscene chat messages. Your really know how to lift a girl's spirits. The Bohemian is recovering nicely - she's still really fatigued and has a way to go, but she seems more like her old self than a lump of sick on the couch. She's able to eat solid food, even though it's still painful, in time for the big meal, so she's happy about that.
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